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Those things that hurt, instruct.
Those things that hurt, instruct.
 This grief is crowned with consolation, you old smock brings 
forth a new petticoat, and indeed the tears live read more 
 This grief is crowned with consolation, you old smock brings 
forth a new petticoat, and indeed the tears live in an onion that 
should water this sorrow. 
The only cure for grief is action.
The only cure for grief is action.
While grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates. You must wait till it be digested, and then amusement read more
While grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates. You must wait till it be digested, and then amusement will dissipate the remains of it.
 Light griefs are communicative, great ones stupefy.
 [Lat., Curae leves loquuntur, ingentes stupent.]  
 Light griefs are communicative, great ones stupefy.
 [Lat., Curae leves loquuntur, ingentes stupent.] 
There is no pain so great as the memory of joy in present grief.
There is no pain so great as the memory of joy in present grief.
 Let me moderate our sorrows. The grief of a man should not 
exceed proper bounds, but be in proportion read more 
 Let me moderate our sorrows. The grief of a man should not 
exceed proper bounds, but be in proportion to the blow he has 
received.
 [Lat., Ponamus nimios gemitus: flagrantior aequo
  Non debet dolor esse viri, nec vulnere major.] 
Well has it been said that there is no grief like the grief which does not speak.
Well has it been said that there is no grief like the grief which does not speak.
 What impropriety or limit can there be in our grief for a man so 
beloved?
 [Lat., Quis desiderio read more 
 What impropriety or limit can there be in our grief for a man so 
beloved?
 [Lat., Quis desiderio sit pudor aut modus
  Tam cari capitis?]